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Tuesday, January 22, 2013

*RITA JULIAN ADDO* - TRUTH UPDATE!!

THE TRUTH NEEDS NO DEFENDER. THE TRUTH ALWAYS STANDS ON IT'S OWN BECAUSE THE TRUTH JUST IS.     RITA JULIAN ADDO = TRUTH
  
The lesson from today's post is for each of us to peep our inner foulness that seeps out during those dark moments of weakness and insecurity.  We need to shine some light on it.  WHY????????? Because some things need to be said and I have no problem saying it.

I had to ponder over these thoughts for a while before I made the decision to express them.  WHY??? Because I like to make sure that I'm right.  I could be wrong and if I am then I will apologize and fall back,  but I'm not wrong so here we go.  *TRUTH*


If I didn't feel strongly about what I am about to say, then I would not waste my blog time or precious energy by putting it out there.  I'm fully aware that once it's said, I can't take it back.  My intention is to put it out there, leave it out there because I will not take it back.  


I've only been sharing sharing random thoughts, rants, as well as a very small part of my writing, blogging and pubic facebook page for a short time now.  While I'm grateful for the amazing and positive feedback that I've received from putting myself out there, I never do anything for attention or praise.

  
Things like that don't phase me because I've always had it.  It's not that serious to me.  I like raw realness from a sincere place combined with personal truth.  I appreciate the positive praise or attention but it doesn't make or break me.  I know exactly who I am.

With that said, I just happened to peep something that caught my attention right away and was a bit odd to me.  I have strong supporters on my facebook page https://www.facebook.com/binduinmyheadon 


What I noticed is that some of the people, specifically women go out of their way to intentionally not support other women. *STRAIGHT FOULNESS*

  
*MY REASON FOR RANTING*
I did a feature on the sweet and truly beautiful Julian Rita Addo.  She did an AMAZING job sharing a great deal of wisdom and life lessons.  Something a lot of people don't have the balls to do.  It was a great read and many became touched and inspired by her.  

I know it took courage and fearlessness for her to do this, which made me respect her even more.  I have to speak my peace and get this off of my chest.  One thing I'm never confused about is spotting foulness or grasping  the meaning of REAL SISTERHOOD!

I must it admit that it bothered me how some women can say how great I am and how they love my blog and all this SISTERHOOD talk, but clearly they deliberately did not click "LIKE" or "COMMENT" on Rita's feature, just to go out of their way to NOT show any love or support to another woman who I don't think but I know for a fact is GREATNESS.   Rita is truly amazing.

If you are a woman then you need to be encouraged and shown support.  I could care less if you're a housewife, stripper, a church girl, highly educated, a high school dropout, single mother or married with a million dollars in the bank.  It does not matter because WE NEED EACH OTHER TO SURVIVE!!!  I don't pick or choose who to treat like a sister, because nobody is better than the next person.  WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL!!!!  
*TRUTH* 


Now mind you, a lot of people showed a tremendous amount of love and sincere support which I expected because like I said... Julian Rita Addo is the TRUTH!  Who I'm speaking about, are specific women who know both Rita and myself on and off facebook.  They know our character and can confirm without a doubt that we are the real deal cause we don't have time to play no games.  


I'm putting it out there and I'm not biting my tongue, because it's foulness.  I'm not going to say well it could be this or maybe it's that, nah it's straight hate!  They stayed off my page for two days straight because that's how long I left the feature posted on purpose.  


All of a sudden first thing this morning they are all over my new posts.  That's foulness.  *I SEE U*  Don't talk to me about SISTERHOOD or GREATNESS when you are not genuine with all women because it is a complete turn off.  That is not right at all.  *TRUTH*
Photo: "GREATNESS IN YOU" - JULIAN RITA ADDO

"Let’s Unleash our Glamorous Beauty and Power Together, Naturally.  I can be found on social networking sites all of the time.  www.bella-kinks.com has links to all my activities." 
-JULIAN RITA ADDO

CONNECT TO GREATNESS @ http://inmyhead-bindu.blogspot.com/2013/01/greatness-in-you-julian-rita-addo.html
This sista earned everything she worked hard for.  She's good soul!!! JULIAN RITA ADDO is not only highly favored and truly blessed but it is well deserved. I wish her even bigger and better blessings. May they never end because I have no doubt that she will continue to bless others. 

She is a combination of compassion and greatness wrapped up within her beautiful truth. I could say so many wonderful things about what an amazing and inspiring soul she is, but instead I would just like to say "THANK YOU MY SISTA AND WELL DONE". 

She's the daughter, sister, wife, mother, friend and loved one you would love to have because she truly is God's design and a masterpiece to treasure always. I LOVE HER and her TRUTH!!!! 

With that said......Only you know what is truly inside of your heart or how you really feel towards other people.  I don't do or deal in foulness nor do I sit silently allowing other women to freely disrespect other women.  I pretty much see everything for what it is.  Things are never that complicated to figure out.
May I suggest you clean and clear your hearts out, because when I speak about loving each other, supporting one another and doing things from a pure place....I'M WALKING THAT WALK EVERY SINGLE DAY!  There is never a day that goes by that I don't give, offer, support or show love to somebody, even when I'm down or at my worst OR even after they've done me wrong.  

I always give or offer my best.  If your heart is not clean, I hope you peep that you have some of that foul envy DNA flowing in your veins and change how you treat people.  I never cosign on somebody liking or loving me but then they are nasty, rude, mean spirited, jealous and disrespectful to others.


FOUL IS FOUL!  There really is no way of sugarcoating your foulness.  I'm just putting it out there because it's not okay but women tend to PRETEND by not acknowledging their own foulness or their girlfriends foulness.  Those are the first ones to say "I keep it real", ummm yep, real stank and stenchy!  


I actually don't mess with people who I see are really slick with foul behavior.  I don't need you to love me while you're hating on others. We all know and see it for exactly what it is so let's call it out!


LOVE IS LOVE and HATE IS HATE.  I URGE EVERYONE READING THIS TO SWALLOW AND DIGEST THAT TRUTH.  THEN  HAVE A BLESSED DAY. I'm done!

5 comments:

Saye Cooper said...

Well said. Quite frankly, I enjoyed Rita's truth. She helps to inspire me to share my truth. I am pretty sure other ladies and girls can learn from her or relate to her.

Saye Cooper said...

Well said. Quiet frankly, I enjoyed Rita's post. Her truth inspires me. I am pretty sure there are ladies and girls who can learn from her. They also can relate to her.

BINDU INMYHEAD said...

Hi Saye!!!! Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and giving some feedback on this life lesson. My soul does not feel right when I see women doing things like this. My features are open to everyone because I do believe that we are all GREATNESS. Many times silence is very loud and I felt the need to express those very strong emotions. Either women are going to be a united front and support each other or the ones that choose not to can stay stuck in their insecurities. I'm very proud of Rita just like I am of you and all women. Right is right and wrong is wrong.....I was not comfortable with other women trying to do her wrong. NO BLESSING BLOCKERS ON MY WATCH! *TRUTH* :-)

Alveda W. Farrow said...

We move off stories so fast in this country, forgetting there are people behind every headline.

Rita already knows that people judge based on what they see and even when you think you know Rita, you don't...that TRUTH doesn't warrant HATE however it can cause others to hold back in the same way that she may hold back.

Getting to know a person takes effort but I agree it would be easier among females if we had more sisterhood. Remember that sisterhood is impossible until we fully understand the definition. Sisterhood is 'the solidarity of women based on shared conditions, experiences, or concerns' by Webster's definition.

We have history that is similar; life experiences, achievements, hurts and pains...it may not help us befriend one another but it should help us to understand one another and respect what another female brings to the plate.

No one is naive; love don't live in every individual however it's not unrealistic of one to think that females can and will go farther when we learn to be more accepting and real!!

Alveda W. Farrow said...

We move off stories so fast in this country, forgetting there are people behind every headline.

Rita already knows that people judge based on what they see and even when you think you know Rita, you don't...that TRUTH doesn't warrant HATE however it can cause others to hold back in the same way that she may hold back.

Getting to know a person takes effort but I agree it would be easier among females if we had more sisterhood. Remember that sisterhood is impossible until we fully understand the definition. Sisterhood is 'the solidarity of women based on shared conditions, experiences, or concerns' by Webster's definition.

We have history that is similar; life experiences, achievements, hurts and pains...it may not help us befriend one another but it should help us to understand one another and respect what another female brings to the plate.

No one is naive; love don't live in every individual however it's not unrealistic of one to think that females can and will go farther when we learn to be more accepting and real!!i