"My kindness is for everyone. Everything else must be earned." Bindu
Drama is hate. Drama is pushing your pain onto others. Drama is destruction. Some take pleasure in creating drama while others make excuses to stay stuck in drama. I choose not to step into a web of drama that I can't get out of.
Do you ever look into a person's eyes when they are saying something unkind about someone else or simply spreading gossip? Do you see concern or does the person appear to be feeding off the negativity? You can tell who loves drama. It's usually the people telling you its wrong while peddling drama.
A great example is cheating because women love that topic. Everyone has been cheated on but people love to gossip about who is cheating. They will tell the whole world but rarely do they go directly to the people involved to say: I love you both, I'm hurting for your children, I'm genuinely concerned about your family & if there is any support I can give I am here for you. NOPE!!! It always starts off as gossip which leads to drama.
When you live through love & choose to heal your way through life you will be guided by an energy that will keep you lifted. When you live through hate & choose to hurt your way through life you will be guided by a force that will destroy you.
Your life is reflecting to you exactly who you are each & everyday. Every choice, action & reaction is who you are until you choose to make a change. I am work in progress but I am actually making the progress that I need to evolve into the woman I am destined to become.
What I've learned about myself is for as kind, loving & giving as I am, I am no cakewalk nor should I be. If I can't add value to your life & have you do the same for me, then why are we in each others lives? We all have a different idea of love, support & best intentions.
If you raise the bar & offer your best you deserve the same or better. Sometimes you have to divorce people who add no value to your life because they have nothing to offer but drama.